I love him dearly with all of my heart. But he's got to know the aggravation and pain that he likely will face. I've heard way too many stories of people breaking up with amazing people and they end up alone or in a less happy relationship. He will come to you. Or, if I'm at work, even though I'm constantly busy, even if I wasn't, I can't just pull my phone out and call--i'm at work. Hopefully she could realize if she was born into one of these cults that also distrust apostates she probably wouldn't see through them either.
It sounds like she's already considered marrying you and raising children in the church even with you being out of the church. When we were dating he made it very clear to me that he had no desire to come back to church. I hope to be able to love nurses as I once did for many years. I am also certain that there are callings and opportunities that I would have had, were I married to a faithful LDS woman, that I have missed.
Pants-to-Church Sunday left me a bit bruised. Once she realizes you won't join and she can't get married in the temple, then I suspect everything will be over. Then the girl decided still not to date him after all. See if you can become involved only if it follows your strengths and desires. I have done it many times and the repercussions are that they treat me very poorly, but th. If so that's a good sign. Anonymous, You are definitely one of the the club. Her Religion is more important than you will ever be Her Religion comes first and deep down, she will come to hate you for not accepting joining her religion.
Talk about issues with Jehovah's Witnesses etc. That is a hard truth. I can second this, as a lifelong utahn this is why I simply have a "no mormons" policy for dating. I think it's very helpful that I wasn't nearly as busy for most of our relationship thus farwe got engaged before I got absurdly busy and so it's not like we weren't extremely close. Well, you know what you're not going to get into before marriage So fuck that relationship. I'm really glad I found this post today. Mormonism is not meant to be a casual part of a Mormon's life but it is meant to be the center. This is because if your relationship gets serious and you guys get married, then she may have to forgo many of the customs of her religion. Your mids is still young.